Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Dare to Change Your Perspective

Today marks one week since Moz 20 got together in Philly for our Staging event before departing for Mozambique.  (Moz 20 is what we will forever be called as we are the 20th group of Peace Corps Volunteers in Mozambique).  It also means that we have only been in Mozambique for 5 days!  Which is insane because it feels like it has been so much longer. 
We spent our first 2 days in Maputo (the capital, pronounced mah-POO-too) recovering from jet lag and getting acquainted with Peace Corps while staying at what must be the nicest hotel in Mozambique (our rooms were $250/night and they were the cheapest available rooms!).  On Sunday, the group packed up for training in Namaacha, a small town on the Swazi border, and we met our host families where we will be living for the next ten weeks.  As one could imagine, the anticipation of meeting my host family was characterized by nervousness and the obvious expectation that it would be extremely awkward given my lack of Portuguese and their lack of English.  However, it was so much better than I ever imagined.  My mae (mom) is a super sweet lady named Cecelia and she has already spent countless hours helping me with my Portuguese and showing me how to do different things around the house and my pai (dad) is an older man named Horacio who I really haven’t seen much but he is the President of the Clube do Namaacha and he is apparently a huge Detroit Red Wings fan, as evidenced by the wearing of his only hat.  My Spanish has helped carry me through the first two days, but I have found so many new ways to communicate.  Most times I literally play charades with my mother while she tries to figure out what this crazy ‘brianco’ is doing, but it all works out in the end.
In the two days of training thus far, we’ve spent close to eight hours on Portuguese alone, including six hours on Tuesday.  It’s amazing that when you spend so much time learning a language how quickly you are able to pick it up.  I’ve even been able to make a few complete sentences with my mae which I thought would take at least a week or two to accomplish.  As a comparison for how quickly we are moving:  I took Spanish for eight (8!) years and didn’t learn the preterit tense until my fourth year; I have been taking Portuguese for two days and have already learned the preterit tense!  It’s obviously a lot to learn in such a short period of time, but I’m not sure it could be going better.  (Obviously it has only been two days, so it could go way downhill from here.  But so far, so good.)
When I signed up for Peace Corps I knew there would be some things I would have to do, eat, see, learn, etc. that I had never experienced before.  Specifically I was prepared to eat a lot of fish and different fruits that I generally don’t eat at home.  And I was hit with it my very first day in Namaacha.  I have already had four things for the first time here in Mozambique: spam, papaya, avocado, and lastly (and my mom’s personal favorite) tea.  Let’s be honest, spam is actually as horrible as it sounds, but there is no way I cannot not eat it when my mae wakes up at 6am to make it for me (along with some eggs).  And I know you’re thinking, “How could this kid never have eaten avocado?!” especially since I love Mexican food.  I’ve now had it twice and it was much better the second time around.  And I somehow made it 22 wonderful years and through four years of college without even a sip of tea or coffee and now even that has changed.  Again, when my mae gives me a pitcher of hot water, teabags, sugar, and milk at breakfast, how can I let it sit there without touching it?  So every morning in Namaacha I have a cup of tea to go along with my egg and spam.  Sounds like the best breakfast!
I could go on and on and on about how awesome the 26 people in Moz 20 are, but I will save you the time.  There are so many different backgrounds in the group - people who have lived in China, the Netherlands, Argentina, Saudi Arabia, Colombia and Canada.  Nine of the 26 have Master’s Degrees and one even has a J.D.  There are three volunteers over the age of 50 and three who graduated from college within the last month.  It seems like all the volunteers have a huge interest in International Relations/Affairs/Development, and it is so nice to be surrounded by so many people who share the same interest as me for the first time.  We can actually have conversations that go beyond, “North Korea is bad,” “Can you believe the Eurozone,” or “Gas costs so much money.”  So that’s been nice.  But the one thing that we all really share is the fact that we are doing Peace Corps.  Together.  And it seems like it is not our interest in one another or our collective interest in IR that bonds us, but it is our desire to do Peace Corps that has brought us so close.  We all have different pasts but our pasts have led us to do this together and that is an amazing thing.
We learned on Monday that two Peace Corps Volunteers (or PCVs in this acronym crazed world), one from Zambia and one from Ghana, recently passed away.  Our Country Director, Carl, showed us a video and song made by the Country Director in Togo in honor of the two volunteers.  It was seriously one of the most moving songs/videos I have ever seen.  In one photo of the video was a mural that read, “Dare to Change Your Perspective” and I think our entire group fell into tears together.  So I think from here on out that will push me to keep going when things get tough.

I don’t want to end it on a sappy note, so to conclude - Mozambique has been AMAZING so far.  The Portuguese is still intimidating, but we are all getting there.  Slowly.  The people are wonderful, the food is great, the scenery is beautiful and I couldn’t have asked for a better group to be serving with.  This is just the beginning, but it is shaping up to be an amazing ride.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Time Flies!

I almost always leave everything to the last minute so it should be no surprise that I have done the same with the creation of my Peace Corps blog which I've been promising for close to two months now.  It's amazing how hectic life can get when you leave packing, seeing all your friends, and reassuring your parents that you'll be okay to the last minute.  And then you realize you forgot to make a blog!  So it's 11pm and I'm supposed to be meeting everyone I'm joining the Peace Corps with in about 12 hours.  But first I have to finish packing and say some final "see you later's."
The Peace Corps is something that I jokingly told my parents I wanted to do probably five years ago.  I had no idea what it was other than the fact that it included living abroad for two years and that was good enough for me.  So you could say I've had the travel bug for quite some time now.  I didn't seriously begin to consider any type of international volunteering until I went to the Dominican Republic with Villanova's Service Break Trip Program and lived at an orphanage for young boys.  It opened my eyes to a world I had only heard about before.  But somehow I almost felt more comfortable and at ease living without the constant comforts of modern living.  I realized I'd rather trade the hustle and bustle of American life for the real human relationships I felt I could actually build with these kids who knew nothing of my life except that Vladimir Guerrero could hit any pitch to any field and make it look effortless.
I used the resources at Villanova to make three more trips abroad during my final two years of college.  I spent June 2010 in Rwanda seeing the effects of 1994 up close.  I'm not sure I'll ever see anything so real again in my life.  But more than the history of Rwanda, I fell in love with the people and culture.  In Rwanda people seemed to live with a passion for life, similar to the boys in the Dominican Republic.
I knew I had to return to Africa, so for the Spring Semester of my junior year I studied at the University of Botswana where I spent entirely too much time comparing it to my experience in Rwanda and not enough time appreciating Botswana for the amazing place it is and the incredible people I met.  But as I reflect on my time in Botswana I realize that it gave me the confidence that I really could live abroad for a long period of time.
My final experience abroad was another one of Villanova's Service Trips.  I went to Cambodia in January 2012 and lived at an orphanage for children who lost their parents to AIDS.  The operation at New Hope for Cambodian Children was absolutely astonishing.  I never really believed that one person (or two) could make a huge difference in the world, but after seeing what John and Kathy were doing for these children, who were basically ostracized in Cambodia, was inspiring.  I began to think that the world may not recognize what one or two people are doing, but that doesn't mean they're not making a difference.  From that point, I knew I had to do something with my life that made me feel like I was using my knowledge and abilities to make a difference for even just one person.
So here I am, about to spend two years in Mozambique doing something related to HIV/AIDS - something I know next to nothing about - completely overpacked, and incredibly excited to begin this journey that (fingers crossed) will change me forever.

A note about the blog title.  I've realized the saying "time flies when you're having fun" is incredibly cliche, but also flawlessly accurate.  I always find myself trying to remember the little stories that make each experience worthwhile.  And invariably, I find myself wishing I had more time to make more memories with the people I meet wherever I go.  So one of my goals for this Peace Corps experience is to be present as much as possible - to invest in the people I'm working with, not just for their benefit but also for my own.  Hopefully I will find the time to slow things down and make the most of every moment.  A well known figure once said, "Life moves pretty fast.  If you don't stop and look around once and a while, you could miss it."  Well, here's to hoping no moment passes by without at least one second of its recognition.  I'm excited, anxious, nervous, apprehensive, but ready for this and I hope you all hop on for the ride.  It's gonna be WILD!